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		<title>A sure fire way to end overwhelm</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 18:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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While changing the sheets, I broke into a moment of spontaneous fun with my dog and it got me thinking&#8230;..
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<div>While changing the sheets, I broke into a moment of spontaneous fun with my dog and it got me thinking&#8230;..</div>
<div>How many days have you sat in front of your computer all day long, not taking breaks and getting more and more overwhelmed?</div>
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<p>One of my tricks is to take breaks -</p>
<p>This is one of my really fun ones with my crazy dog.</p>
<p>What are some of the tricks you use?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love you to share yours in the comment section.</p>
<p>Blessings-</p>
<p>Therese and &#8220;K-Dog&#8221;</p></div>
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		<title>Business Lessons from The Biggest Loser TV Show</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 00:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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One of my favorite shows is The Biggest Loser. Why?  					Because it’s one of the most inspiring things you can see on  					the tube. In this article I’m going to parallel the  					contestants and what they go through with you – my  					entrepreneur tribe. As you watch their journey, I’ll show [...]]]></description>
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<p>One of my favorite shows is <em>The Biggest Loser. </em>Why?  					Because it’s one of the most inspiring things you can see on  					the tube. In this article I’m going to parallel the  					contestants and what they go through with you – my  					entrepreneur tribe. As you watch their journey, I’ll show  					you how you can be reenergized in business.</p>
<p>Let’s start at the beginning. <em>The Biggest Loser</em> contestants have it tough. So much tougher than we “normal  					sized” folks do. Why? Because they can’t hide. If you look  					at them with 100 extra pounds on their frames, you could  					assume that there is something not working in their lives.</p>
<p>That’s the good and the bad news for them. The good is that  					it doesn’t allow for slipping into denial because their pain  					or dysfunction is publicly visible. And maybe that makes  					them just a bit luckier in some ways.</p>
<p>Luckier? You are probably well aware that if you pull the  					curtain on some of the success teachers, actors or athletes,  					they are hiding many, many things. Maybe they are hiding the  					fact that they aren’t really making the money they claim. Or  					perhaps it’s that they are having personal or relationship  					issues themselves.</p>
<p>I think that when we are in the public eye – and as an  					entrepreneur you are in the public eye – the tendency is to  					want to put just a bit of ‘spin’ on the less-than-great  					elements in your life. It’s hard to step up and be authentic  					about the challenges you have gone through or the things  					that haven’t worked when you have the ability to put the  					nice suit on, crank out a few more happy tweets, and just go  					about the business of not dealing with what’s real.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1014" title="biggest_loser" src="http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/biggest_loser.jpg" alt="biggest_loser" width="175" height="211" />But  					not my Biggest Losers&#8230;nope. They bare it all, and on  					national TV. As the saying goes, <strong>“The only way  					around is through.” </strong>These folks work through their  					issues to get to the healthier, happier, and beautiful  					person underneath. Week after week they face their fears,  					get pushed past their limits, and find strength in  					themselves that they never dreamed existed.</p>
<p>Isn’t that what the entrepreneurial journey is about? That’s  					how I have experienced it this last year, and I want to  					share my formula with you, so you too may have the business  					that brings you joy.</p>
<p><strong>It’s about having D.A.T.E.S with your destiny –</strong></p>
<p>D – <strong>Decide to change </strong>– The contestants  					first have to come to a place where they decide that they  					can no longer continue to keep living in this way. What do  					you need to decide? How about that you will have more fun in  					your business? Maybe it’s that you will finally give  					yourself permission to put yourself more fully into the work  					you do. Or perhaps that 2010 will finally be the year that  					you bite the bullet and get the team support you need so  					that you can devote yourself more to doing the work you  					love. Whatever it is for you&#8230;DECIDE! Repeat that to  					yourself over and over and over&#8230;”I am deciding to  					______________, or I have decided ________________.” There’s  					power in that!</p>
<p>A – <strong>Assess what’s true </strong>– within the first  					week on the ranch where the Biggest Losers stay for the  					duration, they are giving a full battery of tests to  					determine their level of health and fitness. This is where  					many of the final shreds of denial fall away for these  					courageous souls. Last season a woman who was 49 years old  					tested out at about 61 which shocked the heck out of her.  					Some times we want to run from the parts of our business  					(and life) that are a bit messy. We don’t want to see that  					maybe our books aren’t in order, or that we haven’t been  					charging what we should, but by not looking at that, it  					still has power over you. How about this&#8230;.”You can’t grow  					what you don’t know.”</p>
<p>Here are a few things you should be assessing for the health  					of your business –</p>
<p>Your marketing: how frequent and how effective is it?<br />
Your follow up: is it automated?<br />
Your billing: is it done on time?<br />
Your books: are you getting up to date P &amp; L’s and reviewing  					them regularly.<br />
Your wealth plan: is it growing?<br />
Your networking: are you making new connections and building  					powerful relationships?<br />
Your offerings: does your market want something new for this  					year?</p>
<p>Have the courage to make a list of all the things you want  					to assess and have courage to tell yourself the truth.</p>
<p>T – <strong>Train with the Best. </strong>If you have seen the show, there  					are two very different strength trainers who work out the  					contestants. One is a very open-hearted guy named Bob, who  					clearly loves the contestants and shows that. The other is a  					kick-butt gal named Jillian, who is also very much there for  					them, but does it in a ‘boot camp’ way that calls them out  					when they are giving up on themselves. She screams and  					doesn’t let them off the hook, and while I’d probably be a  					mess of tears, her “in your face” style does the trick of  					helping the contestants to remember why they are there.</p>
<p>So let’s replicate their success. Who do you train with? Who  					calls out your brilliance, even when you can’t see it for  					yourself or are too tired to go on? Who loves you, supports  					you, designs exercises for your growth, and is there  					cheering you on? Every great athlete has multiple coaches.  					You just cannot expect to grow your business without  					training with the best, so in 2010, make it your #1 priority  					to find the best coach or mentor out there and let them get  					their hands on your business the way Bob and Jillian do for  					the contestants. You’ll love the results!</p>
<p>E – <strong>Enhance Your Environment </strong>– The contestants live on “The  					Ranch” which provides an environment for success. Thomas  					Leonard, the Father of Coaching used to say, “Environment is  					stronger than will” which means that a well constructed  					environment can pull you forward, while will is something  					you have to push and work at. An example of a powerful  					environment could be a mastermind group. You just show up,  					plug in and get new inspiration. Another one would be to  					design your office so that you feel energized just being  					there versus dragged down by clutter. There are environments  					in what sort of things you are reading and taking in. Are  					you surrounded by thoughts and ideas that enliven you and  					bring out your best? If not, change it.</p>
<p>S – <strong>Step up and Play Big</strong> – The final contestants of the  					Biggest Loser all get a makeover and then  					<img class="size-medium wp-image-1016 alignleft" title="biggest_winner" src="http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/biggest_winner-155x300.jpg" alt="biggest_winner" width="155" height="300" /> their families  					(who have not seen them in months) get to see the new person  					that has emerged. The metamorphosis is unbelievable. That’s  					what I want for you. To step up. Do the thing you have been  					afraid to do. What part of your business could you make  					over? Maybe that website that has been languishing could use  					a revamp. How about adding some teleclasses to your  					offerings to showcase your brilliance. Or let’s get crazy  					here&#8230;.why not write that book you have been talking about  					for years?</p>
<p>It doesn’t have to be a complete business overhaul, but you  					have to start somewhere. Ask yourself these questions&#8230;</p>
<p style="margin: 20px 18px; padding-right: 20px; text-align: left;">What are three things I could do that would energize my  					business and my spirit?<br />
What help/support would I need to pull that off?<br />
What results would I like to see as a result?<br />
When will I get started?</p>
<p>There you go. My thoughts on how you can be The Biggest  					Winner!</p>
<p style="margin: 20px 18px; padding-right: 20px; text-align: left;">Be sure to leave a comment on what you are going to do on  					the blog, and know I’m here to support you. (Not like  					Jillian, but I’ll for sure hold your greatness &#8217;til you can  					see it.)</p>
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		<title>Reframing Discipline</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 05:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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<p>It&#8217;s Sunday night at 9:30 and the very last thing I want to do is to write this blog!</p>
<p>Nothing personal, but I&#8217;m tired and would really prefer to jump into a nice hot tub after a day of doing some de-cluttering in my home and even going for a run.  But I made a commitment when I joined the <a href="http://www.sandrasplog.com">30 Day Blog Challenge</a> with Sandra Martini</p>
<p>I would totally have not done this blog.  When you are tired, it&#8217;s easy to blow off commitments. Especially when WE are the ones setting the deadlines.  That can be the kiss of death for an entrepreneur.  Newsletter didn&#8217;t go out on Tuesday, no worries&#8230;it can go on Thursday.  Didn&#8217;t get that marketing piece written last month, not a problem&#8230;just let it roll next month.  And we do this over and over and over to ourselves.  When we are tired or overwhelmed, we think that entrepreneurial freedom means the ability to push out deadlines.  And this can be a slippery slope!</p>
<p>The challenge is to <strong>look at discipline as providing freedom</strong>.  Being a bit of a free spirit myself, that has been some hard learning for me.  It&#8217;s not my natural way of living, but after doing the blog challenge for five days (and loving that I have kept my commitment to myself) I can see that doing just that one activity will translate into adding new levels of discipline in other areas.  (Did you notice the &#8220;I went for a run&#8221; comment in the first paragraph?)  Today I embrace discipline as the very thing that will move me closer to my goals.  But what does that word conjure up for you?</p>
<p>My challenge to you my dear readers is to look at your relationship with the concept of discipline.  If you want to improve a skill, where do you need to employ some additional discipline?  When you hear that word, do you get all warm and cozy, or does it feel like a noose around your neck?  Usually it&#8217;s the right-brain-creative types who feel like discipline is tantamount to a parent controlling what they get to do.  Not trying to harken you back to your teenage years my friends, but I&#8217;m just pushing around to see what you come up with for yourself around this concept.</p>
<p>What I have found to be the best thing to counter this?  Get either a coach or other powerful environment where you are so excited to be doing the work, that you are willing to do things that you normally wouldn&#8217;t.  Accountability, community, and commitment are the way out.</p>
<p>There&#8230;I did it!  Got the blog done, and am on my way to the tub.  And secretly?  I&#8217;m sort of proud of myself.</p>
<p>Blessings!</p>
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		<title>The 30-day challenge and a serious question for you</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 16:34:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s post is about three things &#8211; creating powerful environments, accountability, and identity.  Yikes!  Sounds a bit heavy, but keep reading.  It&#8217;s all gonna be good in the end, I assure you.
Okay gang, let&#8217;s see if I can keep my commitment.
One of the gals in my Women Making an Impact Mastermind group is Sandra Martini.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today&#8217;s post is about three things &#8211; creating powerful environments, accountability, and identity.  Yikes!  Sounds a bit heavy, but keep reading.  It&#8217;s all gonna be good in the end, I assure you.</p>
<p>Okay gang, let&#8217;s see if I can keep my commitment.</p>
<p>One of the gals in my <a href="http://vivavisibilityblog.com/services-and-products/the-mastermind-lounge/">Women Making an Impact Mastermind</a> group is <a href="http://www.sandramartini.com/">Sandra Martini</a>.  You&#8217;ve probably heard of her as she&#8217;s quite the savvy solution for business owners.  Recently  she threw down the gauntlet &#8211; a <a href="http://www.sandrasplog.com/">30 day blog challenge</a> which starts today.  That means that we are to write 30 posts in a 30 day period.<img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-681" title="ploomy_writing-challenge_vf" src="http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/ploomy_writing-challenge_vf-300x200.jpg" alt="ploomy_writing-challenge_vf" width="300" height="200" /></p>
<p>Since I&#8217;m such a challenge driven-chica&#8230;.I thought I&#8217;d play.  I actually love writing, but have not been making time for it.  I always want to go all &#8220;Anne Lamott&#8221; with my work, so it&#8217;s much like the artist with their canvas versus using the blog for article distribution and marketing purposes.  So Sandy&#8217;s challenge is just the the thing I&#8217;ve needed to get in gear and start writing.  Her idea is that in 30 days, we will have created a new habit.  How cool is that?</p>
<p>This experiment brings to mind two very important coaching points.  It&#8217;s far easier to be successful if you have created for yourself a powerful environment than trying to use your will power.  I liken it to going to a personal trainer who won&#8217;t put up with you whining that your legs are getting sore or that you can&#8217;t possible do another push up.  Ya see, we give up on ourselves way too easily.  That&#8217;s why having the environment of the blog challenge is a great thing for me to get the results I want.</p>
<p>The second piece to this success tip &#8211; having accountability!  Just like going to the gym (or in most cases NOT going to the gym) when we are on our own and no one expects us to show up or keep our commitments, it&#8217;s way too easy to push deadlines, slack off, get distracted, and ultimately&#8230;lose site of the very thing we want.</p>
<p>But Sandy has set up a community and a contest, and I&#8217;m going a step further and publicly proclaiming my desires.  That&#8217;s a HUGE kick-in-the-pants-to-keep-on-track strategy and I suggest you do that in some area of your life or business.</p>
<p>This all leads me to the real meat of the post today.  It&#8217;s 09/09/09.  My friends who are familiar with feng shui have shared that this is a very auspicious day.  (Don&#8217;t you love that word!  It means &#8220;favored by success, prosperous, or fortunate.&#8221;)  It&#8217;s auspicious because in numerology, the number 9 is about endings and completions.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what I really wanted to talk to you about today.  My big question to you is this &#8211; What do you have to let go of in your life, in your business, with  your health, with your habits or beliefs in order for you to make the rest of this year really be what you want it to be for yourself?</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an example of what your list could look like-</p>
<p>Disorganization and clutter- email &#8211; lack of focus &#8211; trying to do it all by myself &#8211; lack of exercise &#8211; lack of putting myself first &#8211; spending money &#8211; no plan for investing &#8211; working too much &#8211; poor eating habits &#8211; being surrounded by emotionally unavailable people &#8211; playing small and safe.</p>
<p>What is it for you?  This is where the rubber hits the road as they say.  I challenge you to take time today and do an inventory of all the &#8217;stuff&#8217; you need to let go of, and then build time into your calendar to make it happen.</p>
<p>And here&#8217;s one thing to know&#8230;the physical stuff is easy!  Anyone can clear clutter or organize a closet.  It&#8217;s those pesky emotional and relational things that can hold us back.  If you are living with a partner who drains  you, or have clients who don&#8217;t value you, it takes courage to either cut them loose, or have better boundaries.  But I want to tell you that I am here, cheering you on because I know it can be done.  And if you feel like you need a bit more support &#8211; you can check out our <a href="http://www.innerguruexperience.com/">InnerGuruExperience</a> and get the tools you need.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s it gonna be?  How are  you going to design your life as we roll in to a new year?  I&#8217;m encouraging you to choose higher!  Why don&#8217;t you post on the comment section what you are giving up so we can hold that for you?</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to the NEW you&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>How to Have a Business Breakthrough &#8211; (Waterslide story part 3)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 03:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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In the first two parts of this &#8220;Breakthrough on a Water Slide&#8221; series- we talked about the fear, and getting through it, but  let me tell you what happens in business.

After a few years, you reach a certain level of mastery. But then you hit another wall. You have to deal with these three [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In the first two parts of this &#8220;Breakthrough on a Water Slide&#8221; series- we talked about the fear, and getting through it, but  let me tell you what happens in business.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">After a few years, you reach a certain level of mastery.<span> </span>But then you hit another wall.<span> </span>You have to deal with these three questions -</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">How do you take yourself from where you are, and really get expert status?.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">How do you get to be well known?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">How can you have a leveraged business, and have a solid client base.<span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>Those are the questions and the challenges of this stage.<span> </span>At this point having mastery isn’t enough.<span> </span>You ability to attract your ideal clients means you need to have ‘the hook’ of what makes you different, special, unique, etc.<span> </span>For example, it’s not enough just to be a chiropractor.<span> </span>Your success depends on you being able to articulate very clearly why you are better and there has to be enough to differentiate you from the crowd.<span> </span>And this journey is not easy.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">When I was trapped in that black tube, with no control and NO WAY OUT BUT THROUGH, it hit me that so many business owners get stuck right here.<span> </span>At times there literally is nothing you can do but surrender to the process.<span> </span>You can’t force, push, control or manipulate your next phase of growth.<span> </span>And here’s the thing – everyone goes through this.<span> </span>If they aren’t talking about it, it doesn’t mean that they haven’t’ been in the dark, not sure how to get out, not sure where the next client is coming from.<span> </span>But being in that tube, and having the experience of just surrendering to the flow, taught me huge lessons.<span> </span>Part of it is in our control, but the rest isn’t. Sure…you can market a bit more, but you will go through some dark times when you are ready to make the leap.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Let me wrap up with my process for how to get on the other side if you are feeling like you are in the dark or aren’t sure how to get over your business blocks.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">1.<span> </span><strong>Make a decision</strong>.<span> </span>It always starts with the decision.<span> </span>For me it took noticing that my kids were off having fun and I was all alone standing there in the heat, missing out.<span> </span>I decided that my fear would turn into an opportunity for growth.<span> </span>What do you need to decide in your life and business?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">2.<span> </span><strong>Ask for help from someone who has been there before you.</strong><span> </span>Thankfully, the lads had been on all the slides so knew which one to start me on.<span> </span>You will be well served by enlisting support from people who are committed to your success, but can show you the way themselves.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">3.<span> </span><strong>Use all the tools you have</strong>.<span> </span>Truthfully, doing EFT on top of the slide was probably quite funny to some people around me and I’m sure my boys were horrified (cuz aren’t all kids embarrassed by what their parents do) but it worked.<span> </span>I’d make a list right now of the tools that you need to get you through to the other side.<span> </span>Maybe that’s doing some meditation or journaling, or creating a vision board.<span> </span>Just pull ‘em out and start using them.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">4.  <strong>Put yourself in an environment that will challenge you</strong><strong>. </strong>I hear from almost every creative entrepreneur that their big breakthroughs don&#8217;t happen while sitting in front of their computers!  Get outside. Do something physical.  Change your scenery, and you will open up to new possibilities you had not seen before.<strong> </strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">5.<span> </span><strong>Have some fans.</strong><span> </span>Part of the cool thing for me was that my kids saw me conquer a huge fear.<span> </span>In fact my son said, “Mom, does it kind of bug you that you have missed out on water slides and all this fun for fifty years.”<span> </span>Yeah John, it really bugged me, but now I now get to make the next 50 years full of more fun!<span> </span>My kids were super excited and proud.<span> </span>Who is in your life that is cheering you on?<span> </span>When you are going through one of these ‘dark nights’ in your business, there is nothing more important than cheerleaders who can show you how far you have come and what’s possible.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">That&#8217;s my story!  Now I want you to share yours.  Where did your big breakthrough occur?  And what has changed because of that?  Put a comment on the blog and share please.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Blessings!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Therese</p>
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		<title>Water slide Business Breakthroughs &#8211; Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 01:53:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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Part two &#8211; Finding the Tools to Prevent the Freak Out!
I’ll tell you the business application in tomorrow&#8217;s post, but I want you to hear the story of how this all came to be, because it’s pretty funny. Pathetic perhaps, but funny.   

A friend and I decided to take our kids to [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Part two &#8211; Finding the Tools to Prevent the Freak Out!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I’ll tell you the business application in tomorrow&#8217;s post, but I want you to hear the story of how this all came to be, because it’s pretty funny. Pathetic perhaps, but funny. <span style="font-family: Wingdings;"> <img src='http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">A friend and I decided to take our kids to the water park.  To tell you the truth, I was really cranky because it was about a hundred million degrees and I’d rather be anywhere but outside. But I said yes because the boys were super excited to go.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">When we got there, we first went to more of the ‘kid-friendly’ area where there were a few teenagers, but mostly people under four feet tall. It was here that I finally decided to just go for it, so I think I did one 20 feet high open slide.  That <span style="text-decoration: underline;">open</span> piece is the key because being in an enclosed tube in the black was more than my little psyche could handle. Me and the toddlers were content to stay on the baby-ish slides, but my boys wanted to head over to where the real action was.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I found my boys and told them that I needed their help in getting over this fear. Having done most of the slides by now, they decided that I’d do the tubes that were only half way enclosed, but not pitch black. Let the journey begin!  Once decided on the slide, we began to scale what felt like five stories, and the closer I got, the more anxious I became. So anxious in fact, that I was almost hyperventilating! (But thankfully having done the <a href="http://www.innerguruexperience.com"><span style="color: #000000;">Inner Guru Experience </span></a>with Molly Luffy, I learned how to use EFT for just those situations!) It actually worked, and I was able to calm myself down enough to get up the stairs.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">My ten year old was the one really leading the charge to get me to do this, and his famous coaching command to me (as I was doing EFT tapping like a fool and praying) was to say, “Come on mom, sack up!” Guess that’s boy love or something. Between that, the prayers, the tapping, and mostly my decision that <strong>I would not turn back</strong>, I did it!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">One slide down! I did it and it was absolutely exhilarating. <strong>I had been able to conquer all my thoughts and calm myself down</strong>.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Now the boys decided to throw me into the black tube of death. (OK, it wasn’t really called that, but felt like it at the time!)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">This slide was completely enclosed and totally black except for the last third. There was about a ten foot open space, and then it was enclosed again.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-361" title="waterpark12" src="http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/waterpark12-300x162.jpg" alt="waterpark12" width="300" height="162" />Being in this tube was where it all came clear to me. As I popped onto the inner tube and pushed myself into the water, it was pitch black. And the water was in control. Not me. Then and there I had the ‘a ha’ that this is the very place that business owners fear. Very often we hit places in our businesses where it almost exactly mirrors my experience here.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Tomorrow&#8217;s article will share with you the connection with the water slide, business breakthrough&#8217;s, and how to set yourself up to have one in any environment.</p>
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		<title>Business Breakthroughs on a Water Slide</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 03:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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or “How my 10 year old coached me into getting over my fears and getting with the game of living bigger”
 
This is a story that I just kept writing and writing and writing, so we’ll break it up into three parts….
 
 
What if you could have a breakthrough in the most unlikely of [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><strong>or “How my 10 year old coached me into getting over my fears and getting with the game of living bigger”</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong> </strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">This is a story that I just kept writing and writing and writing, so we’ll break it up into three parts….</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong> </strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong> </strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">What if you could have a breakthrough in the most unlikely of places?<span> </span>What if doing one wild and crazy thing changed the way you experienced your business?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Because we are in some wacky times and almost every business owner I know has been faced with having to figure out how to get and keep clients, and how to best put forward their marketing messages.<span> </span>Since I’m in the middle of yet another rebranding, I’ve been experiencing some of that frustration myself.<span> </span>But it was all about to change….</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In that moment of surrendering to the water and where it was taking me through the black tube – I saw why so many business owners are struggling.<span> </span>Speeding down the tube, I even was able to see a solution!<span> </span>(Sort of like your life flashing before you…except I wasn’t going to the pearly gates, but to the big splash pool at the end.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Tune in tomorrow to hear how I went from a freaked out water-slide phobic mom, to a solid and grounded business owner who ‘got it’ in terms of the flow of life and business.</p>
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		<title>Beating Yourself Up in Business With the Law of Attraction</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 18:47:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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&#8220;What the heck,&#8221; the frustrated business owner proclaimed. &#8221; I can&#8217;t believe that my program didn&#8217;t work.  I did EVERYTHING right.  I had great copy, offered some cool benefits, and solved a problem for my market.  And price was super low.&#8221;

&#8220;But mostly, I thought I used consciousness in this one.  I prayed about it,  connected [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>&#8220;What the heck,&#8221;</em> the frustrated business owner proclaimed. <em>&#8221; I can&#8217;t believe that my program didn&#8217;t work.  I did EVERYTHING right.  I had great copy, offered some cool benefits, and solved a problem for my market.  And price was super low.&#8221;<br />
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<p><em>&#8220;But mostly, I thought I used consciousness in this one.  I prayed about it,  connected to the soul of my prospective clients, and felt all the feelings of how amazing it would be to work with these people. &#8220;</em></p>
<p><em> </em> She was near tears with this as she went on..</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Why?  Did I do something wrong?  How could people not buy?  Maybe it&#8217;s an integrity issue with me, or maybe I have some hidden beliefs that made me screw this up.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>The wise marketing mentor listened patiently, and let her go on.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I thought I knew how to work with the Law of Attraction, but clearly I missed something here.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>At this point, it was too much for the marketing mentor.  She had to jump.</p>
<p>&#8220;Stop!&#8221;  I hear that you are going down that road, and that stuff may be part of the problem, but do you want to know what the real issue is?&#8221;</p>
<p>Startled, the business owner was ready to hear what the problem was because she was so desperate for solutions.</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;The real problem is that you had a marketing failure!&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><em>&#8220;What?&#8221;  Marketing failure?  What do you mean&#8221; asked the business owner.</em></p>
<p>The mentor went on &#8211; &#8220;Think about it&#8230;you have not been connecting with your list regularly.  You absolutely cannot expect your audience to buy from you without first establishing a relationship with them.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Really, it&#8217;s that simple?  Can you tell me what to do to start establishing those connections?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>&#8220;Sure! Here is what you do:&#8221;</p>
<p>1.  Consistently get in front of your list.  Weekly is ideal.  Send a newsletter or tip.</p>
<p>2.  Share content that solves their problems.</p>
<p>3.  Be personable and let them know personal details about you so they can connect.</p>
<p>4.  Gradually begin offering them ways to partake of your services.</p>
<p>5.  Start by offering small things &#8211; even free teleclasses/articles are fine at first.</p>
<p>6.  Next move into offering low cost ways to have them sample and experience what you do.</p>
<p>7.  Invite other people to promote you to their lists, and repeat the cycle with the new names.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I can&#8217;t tell you how much better I feel!  I will still do the LOA stuff because that&#8217;s who I am, but this gives me something I can work on.  Now I have a plan!  Thanks so much.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>The mentor smiled &#8211; feeling so happy that she could pass this information on, knowing that it will make all the difference in the world.</p>
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		<title>Even Rock Stars Get Insecure Sometimes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 02:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This one surprised me.
I was coaching a woman who is incredibly talented in what she does.  In fact, she&#8217;s positioned to make close to a seven figure income in a year, so the gal knows her stuff! Trust me &#8211; you&#8217;ll know her name very soon as she rolls her marketing out in a big [...]]]></description>
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<p>I was coaching a woman who is incredibly talented in what she does.  In fact, she&#8217;s positioned to make close to a seven figure income in a year, so the gal knows her stuff! Trust me &#8211; you&#8217;ll know her name very soon as she rolls her marketing out in a big way.</p>
<p>We were working on the elements of her &#8217;squeeze&#8217; page and other items for her new blog.  That&#8217;s when it happened.</p>
<p>I said, &#8220;Okay, so now what you need to do is to put those things we just talked about in your calendar and get them done.&#8221;  She said, &#8220;Yeah, but how?&#8221;  I said, &#8220;You just do it!&#8221;</p>
<p>She said, &#8220;But Therese, that&#8217;s where I break down.  I can&#8217;t figure out what to do in what order, so because of that I do nothing.  I need you to help me with that.&#8221;</p>
<p>Truthfully &#8211; probably not my greatest coaching moment &#8211; I giggled.  I couldn&#8217;t believe it!  This woman is so powerful and fearless about picking up the phone and getting clients, that I was shocked.  Luckily we have a good relationship and so she said, &#8220;I know you are giggling because you see me as really successful and you always see the best in me, but this is where I could really use your help because I always get stuck right here.&#8221;</p>
<p>So I took her through the process of deciding what to work on, which order, with how much time, and then to put it into her calendar so it could get completed.  She was delighted, and I had learned something really valuable as a result.</p>
<p>What I learned was that we all have areas where we struggle.  We all can look brilliant and talented on the outside, but experience places in our business where things don&#8217;t come easy to us.</p>
<p>For me it&#8217;s spreadsheets.  I feel completely ill equipped to work spreadsheets.  They are like doing neurosurgery or something in my book and I look at people who can use the functions (like adding!) as demi-gods who I respect and admire!  I used to say that in my world, before I was an entrepreneur, Excel was a phone company!  This is one of my huge weaknesses.  But do I beat myself up for it?  Maybe playfully, but what I do do is to have an assistant who is a rock star with this stuff so I don&#8217;t have to try to slog through it, feeling stupid and frustrated.  I get to focus on what my unique brilliance is.</p>
<p>The morale of the story?  Everyone has both an inner rock star, and an inner goofball who can&#8217;t figure out what seems to be the simplest of tasks.  The goal is to not beat yourself, but to get the support around you that allows you to S-H-I-N-E.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love you to share with me your thoughts.  Feel free to post your comments.</p>
<p>Blessings,</p>
<p>Therese</p>
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		<title>Making Money Doing What You Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Therese</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, here’s the deal&#8230;
You are going to spend at least one third to one half of YOUR LIFE working. So why not make it something that gives you joy?
Today’s article is about looking at your business not just as a ‘cash machine’ or a form of revenue generation, but more of something that becomes an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-149" title="business" src="http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/business.jpg" alt="business" width="175" height="168" />OK, here’s the deal&#8230;</p>
<p>You are going to spend at least one third to one half of YOUR LIFE working. So why not make it something that gives you joy?</p>
<p>Today’s article is about looking at your business not just as a ‘cash machine’ or a form of revenue generation, but more of something that becomes an extension of you&#8230;and your life’s mission. Deep stuff I know, but since we are gonna be putting in all those hours, at the end of the day, let’s find a way to make it matter.</p>
<p>Since this article is not your basic Marketing 101 type of article, I want to set up in the beginning who I’m writing to.</p>
<p>If you are the kind of business owner who understands that in some ways your business is like your ministry, I’m talking to you. If you feel called to fully express your gifts through your business, I’m talking to you. If it’s important to you to serve as many people as you can, I’m talking to you. And if you are passionate about leaving a legacy – then you are my people&#8230;So let’s get going&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Business as Your Ministry –</strong></p>
<p>I’m not referencing here the traditional or religious sense of the word ministry. To me it means that <strong>you know that your soul’s purpose is being expressed through your business and the services that you provide.</strong> One of the definitions of ministry is “the act of serving.” You may be a coach or speaker or own a store. Your work can be done consciously or unconsciously. You can look for ways where you can show up more fully and be of greater service, or it can just be a way to collect a paycheck. <strong>You get to decide.</strong></p>
<p>That’s the absolute first step. If you have the sense that your business is like your personal ministry, you stand in the knowing that you are here to serve and are committed to that. From that level of commitment and decision, everything else falls into place.</p>
<p><strong>Fully Expressing Your Gifts –</strong></p>
<p>We are here to make a difference in people’s lives. (OK, that may be my belief, but I like it and am keeping it!) Your business becomes effortless when you express your gifts in the world, instead of trying to be what other people want you to be. This is where fulfillment lives, where passion lives, and its cute little down the street neighbor, Fun, lives!</p>
<p>First you have to know what your gifts are. And a big hint&#8230;what you think is easy and comes naturally and likely gets overlooked as “Doesn’t everyone have that?” – That’s YOUR gift. Take an inventory of what you do easily that your clients are really blown away by. Notice your passion-meter. What gets you juiced to talk about or do? Show up more fully in your business and you’ll not only enjoy it more, but you’ll also attract the RIGHT kind of clients who will resonate with your unique energy, AND you’ll also make more money doing it.</p>
<p>Stuck on what your gifts are? Ask! Survey your clients or close friends/mastermind partners and ask what they see that you are gifted at. You will probably be surprised at what they see that you have overlooked. Next – assign a value to what they say that your gifts are. You have to really own how much impact you have, so <strong>discovering what your gifts are worth is a huge step in gaining entrepreneurial confidence! </strong>When you really get clear about how much value you bring, raising your rates and being paid what you are worth will be easy.</p>
<p><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-150" title="legacy" src="http://acceleratingyoursuccess.com/happyinbusiness/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/legacy.jpg" alt="legacy" width="175" height="174" />Leaving a Legacy –</strong></p>
<p>What will your footprint be? When you are gone, how will you be remembered? By the lives you touched? For the contributions you made? From the children you so tenderly raised?</p>
<p>Is legacy something that you strive for, or a thing that just happens when you show up and do your work in the world?</p>
<p>It’s my belief that sometimes we get so bogged down with the daily ‘to-do’ list that it’s easy to forget that we are here to make a difference. What would change in your business if you regularly tapped into that place in you that could hold the longer vision of what’s possible.</p>
<p>This legacy stuff on one hand feels a bit big and scary. But on the other hand, it can be energizing when you tap into the knowledge that your ideas and contributions will outlive you. I remember years ago meeting a copywriter and her big dream was “to be an influence.” It hadn’t occurred to me at the time that my scope was any broader that the local folks I was working with, but her soul knew that her purpose here was to influence how people thought and to help them open up to new possibilities.</p>
<p>What will it be for you? It’s not something I want you to ‘work’ at or stress over, but do give it some thought. If you create that new product, can you see the ripple effect? Imagine that 100 people work with you, and that work effects 10 of their friends, and five more down the road, in their networks. Can you see the endless possibilities?</p>
<p>So my wish for you, my dear reader, is to really do some thinking about the meaning of your business and the difference you make in the world because of it. Own your vision in a big way! We need that from you.</p>
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