Have you ever wondered how someone really young can be such an “old soul” and have so much wisdom?

I got the chance to see Brendon Burchard again at the Women’s Business Empowerment Summit last weekend. Brendon is about the best speaker I’ve ever heard….and trust me, I’ve heard TONS! Not only is he entertaining and has a great platform of helping people grow by partnering with corporate sponsorships, but he is very soulful in what he’s here to do and the message that he shared.

Brendon is 30. Maybe. He’s written a book called Life’s Golden Ticket which is a fictional account of a man who got a second chance to live. It’s probably based on Brendon’s story which goes something like this….

When he was 19 years old, recovering from a heartbreaking romance, he went to Jamaica to live/work. He was finally coming out of his grief when he and a friend were in a horrific car accident. He spoke of how the whole “Life flashing before your eyes” concept is real, and as their car was careening off a cliff, he had moments of seeing how much love he had experienced.

After they crashed and before he lost consciousness, he got what I call the “Divine Download” and was given these three questions which has become the driver for how he lives his life.

1. Have I lived?

2. Have I loved?

3. Did I matter?

These nine words are very self explanatory, and I invite you to answer them as you begin the self inquiry process.

Have you lived in the way that was in alignment with your values? Are you guarding your heart or have you been able to love freely? And the big question…is what you are doing your soul’s purpose? Did you matter to those around you and to those whom you are here to serve?

My coaching challenge is for you to reflect on these powerful questions and like Brendon, begin to orient your life around them. If you stay in the question, you’ll make the right choices.

And if you want to learn more about Brendon, visit www.lifesgoldenticket.com.